Does your goal-setting mindset need a shake-up?

I recently returned from the Sweet Adeline International Competition in Denver, and had an amazing week listening to the over 2,500 singers who graced the competition stage.  Having worked with many of the choruses competing, I know that the setting of goals was a part of their competition preparation. How each group felt about their competition experience (no matter what the result) was closely tied to how they framed their competition goals.

Goals can inspire you and give you focus and direction, yet they can also cripple you and provide mental interference that  can negatively affect your experience.

Click here to read the feature article (5 Killer Myths about Goals) in my latest e-newsletter to find out if your approach to goal-setting  might be doing your chorus more harm than good.

To your possibilities,

Jan Carley, Inner Coach of Barbershop

 

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How does the need to be perfect get in your way?

I love the following quote by George Benson. It’s a wonderful reminder that no one cares if you make a mistake. However, it’s our fear of making a mistake that robs us from experiencing our true potential and making the deepest musical connections with our audiences. 

“The greatest thing I think that happened to me was, one day I heard a record by the number one guitarist of all time, Andre Segovia, and some place in this classical concerto…he made a little bobble. And I said, ‘Andre Segovia made a mistake! If he can make a mistake, who the heck am I? Who cares whether I make a mistake?’ So I played with reckless abandonment, didn’t worry about mistakes any more. Best thing that could ever happen to me ’cause if you worry about the music, you can’t do it with conviction. So I stopped worrying about it and now I have a career that I never imagined.”
–George Benson, in an interview with Aamer Haleem (CTV Morning Live, May 2012)

In our barbershop art form  it is easy to get trapped into solely focusing on technical mastery which can hugely limit our vocal freedom , emotional expression and possibilities for true connections with our audiences. Do you ever hold back, or limit yourself out of fear of making a mistake? I welcome your comments here.

Goodbye carrots and sticks

It’s a frequent topic of discussion with many chorus leadership teams – How do we motivate members to show up?  To pass their qualifications sooner?  To learn their music earlier?  To take personal responsibility?  

Most of us in the mid-life age bracket grew up with the common “Carrot and Stick” motivational method of reward and punishment wherein good behavior was rewarded, and poor behavior was punished. We, in turn, frequently use that technique in our role as leaders to motivate others, still confused by why chorus members don’t step up to the plate and consistently take personal responsibility.

Motivating by fear may work in the short-term, however, the negative  emotional effects of a “Carrot and Stick” approach on individuals and the chorus culture are significant.  And the use of rewards as a motivational technique can actually serve to undermine one’s self-motivation, thus reducing the possibility of one taking personal responsibility.

Carrots and Sticks are so last century”, says Daniel H. Pink, in his brilliant new book, DRIVE – The Surprising Truth About What Motivates Us

Pink refers instead to 3 essential elements of true motivation (autonomy, mastery and purpose) that connect to create the most powerful form of motivation of all – intrinsic motivation – that which comes from within.

Pink says thattraditional ‘if-then’ rewards can actually give us less of what we want and can serve to diminish performance and crush creativity.”

I highly recommend Pink’s book to anyone in a leadership position.  

Cheers,

Jan Carley, Inner Coach of Barbershop www.innercoachofbarbershop.com

author, Harmony from the Inside Out  www.harmonyfromtheinsideout.com

Free chapter download: Start your 2012 Barbershop life with an Appreciative Approach

Seasons Greetings to all Barbershoppers!  As a Merry Christmas gift to you I would love you all to download the first chapter from my hit book, Harmony from the Inside Out, in which the fundamental principle that is transforming chorus directors, teams and choruses worldwide is outlined.  The chapter is called “Playing the A Game – Living in Possibility” . 

Click the link below to download  Chapter 1 and start your barbershop life on an exciting new path for 2012!  BOOK_HarmonyFromTheInsideOut_ch1

Oh, and there is still time to order the book and get delivery before the New Year! … Order now at : http://www.harmonyfromtheinsideout.com

Cheers,

Jan Carley, Inner Coach of Barbershop www.innercoachofbarbershop.com

Life begins at the end of your comfort zone

I love this diagram (used with permission from Jessica Hagy’s  brilliant Facebook blog “Indexed”).  It is such a simple illustration of one of the most fundamental points to consider as a performer.  Houston Competitors:  Let’s all take some risks and step outside our comfort zone!!!  See you on stage!

Jan Carley, Inner Coach of Barbershop

http://www.innercoachofbarbershop.com

Creating Magic on stage

What does creating magic on stage mean to you?

Magician Jamy Ian Swiss said:  “Magic only happens in a spectator’s mind.  You cannot cross over into the world of magic until you put everything else aside and behind you – including your own desires and needs – and focus on bringing an experience to the audience. This is magic. Nothing else.”

Would love to hear your comments – what will you do to create magic on stage?

Cheers,

Jan

Jan Carley,

Inner Coach of Barbershop

www.innercoachofbarbershop.com

Motivation vs. Inspiration

“You get the best efforts from others not by lighting a fire underneath them but by building a fire within.”  – Bob Nelson, author and motivational speaker

Directors and Leaders: How do you approach the final weeks before competition?  How do you build and keep the momentum necessary for your group to achieve their peak performance onstage?

“Motivation is an external, temporary high that PUSHES you forward. Inspiration is a sustainable internal glow which PULLS you forward.” – Thomas Leonard

Do you motivate or inspire?  I would love to hear your comments here!

-Jan Carley, Inner Coach of Barbershop www.innercoachofbarbershop.com  

Author, Harmony from the Inside Out – Creating and Living your Performance Potential